Saturday, January 8, 2011

[Eng] Alviss Kong's Suicide (Die for Love)

You guys probably had known about this news, yes, Malaysian guy, Alviss Kong who suicided on December 8, 2010 after broke up with his girlfriend. I just knew about this yesterday from a blog. I tried to found the news from some blogs and combine it. Today (January 8, 2011), exactly a month he had gone. Honestly.. i'm so sympathy and I will write back the cronology.

Alviss Kong, born 22nd May 1988, committed suicide in the wee hours of Desember 8th morning by jumping off the 14th floor of Ketumbar Heights, Cheras, Kuala Lumpur after succumbing to emotional distress brought about by the breakup with his girlfriend.
Alviss and his girlfriend had been an item for about four months only prior to their breakup. This was Aviss’ second relationship. It was reported in a local newspaper that Alviss also committed suicide after the breakup with his first girlfriend but was saved in the nick of time. The depression from the breakup with his second girlfriend seemed to have caused him to spiral out of control again, resulting in his suicide. And this time, he really met with his death.

Before committing suicide, he posted a farewell note on his Facebook profile page together with a photo that he tagged as the last photo of him alive. At 11.15 pm on Wednesday night, he posted on his Facebook wall this message “Count Down For 45 Mins…What should I do in this 45 mins?”. His sister and friends responded with messages, not realising the countdown was the countdown to his suicide. At about 11.29 pm, he posted a message to his sister asking her to take care of their mum. That must have freaked out her sister who responded with the message “Hello hello u freaking me out here.. Wats wrong wit you!!!!” 
Slightly over half an hour later, Alviss committed suicide.
Alviss lived in an apartment on the fifth floor of the building. Prior to his suicide, he had a drink at a tea stall near the building.
After he jumped, his body hit a car parked near the building, damaging the car on impact. 

He lay bleeding until he was rushed to the hospital. He passed away at about 9.00.a.m. Dec 8.
Alviss Kong used to work in Berjaya Times Square as IT staff. He went clubbing a lot, and often wore a cute plaster on his face as a fashion statement.



This picture is a newspaper report on the suicide.
 He also wrote a note with a picture, he was crying..You can feel  his sorrow as tears flowed from his eyes. :

first time i take a pic when i were crying..looks sucks...anyway thats the last pic of  mine b4 i gg =)
i love u…i said it i meant it…i’ll love u till the moment i die
devil bin this is the way how i love,perhaps ppl will think it was crazy
i’ve never tried to put down my pride my dignity my ego-ness on my first ex…but u were totally diff,i put down my pride my dignity my every shit
just to beg u….but i failed…as always im just a failure in a relation
but that’s just me,i’ll only do the things which i think its worth…
will i became ur memory forever ? who knows..since u were already special when the first sight i saw u…
perhaps,u’ll just fucking laugh at me…i bet there’s plenty of ppl will laugh too =) but who cares ?
that’s just me…that’s the way i are….
the last thing
i do appreciate everything about us….u were the light in my life..u given me determination for my future…but everything is gone…i don’t blame u actually…
because ~ so just wish u’ll have ya happy life in d future
ILY & IMY ~ sorry that i couldn’t brings u to walk until the end of the day
P/S : Please do not blame her….Im the one who decided this..she’s just the one given me the motivation n courage…..to my FAMILY,please..i beg of u all,dont ever blame on her…
To her future BF : IF U DID ANYTHINGS THAT WOULD HURT HER..I FUCKING SWEAR I’LL FUCKING HAUNT U DOWN EVEN IM JUST A SPIRIT =) !




He announced his relationship with his girlfriend on the 26th of July 2010
And the relationship ended early this month
All I can say is both of them are really pretty and handsome
I don't know what is their relationship problem that is so serious until it can lead to him to commit suicide
Maybe he just can't take it
He can't accept the fact that the girl she loves wanted to leave him i guess
He don't wanna suffer from all this pain and heartbreak?
That is why he choose to end his precious life?

Here is some sweet pictures of him and his girlfriend before everything went wrong :

This is what he wrote in the photo caption :
"Sorry for always forcing u to take picture. Just because i knew someday u would leave me. Just hope to had more memories"




"the pic when u were sleeping today…i really loved u"














 when the jokes became reality ...


 Alviss Kong's funeral
i don't know who made this, but i found some Alviss's support page wrote this:
u Never Care About It Ω
Just Like u Never Care Abt Me Ω
That's The Way u Are Ω

You Talk Like a Bitch †
Lie Like a Witch †
Flirt Like a Slut †
Cheap Like a Whore †
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His Account:
http://on.fb.me/eiM1kq http://alvisskong.blogspot.com/ http://www.facebook.com/alvissk   http://profiles.friendster.com/devilkiddo6 http://profiles.friendster.com/82259992 http://zh.wikipedia.org/zh/江世丰  
I'm really sympathy n touching to hear this...
From the deepest of my heart,  i'm so sorry to hear that..
This is his decision..
We can't do anything anymore now ..
What gone is gone. Just pray for him.. may he get more peace overthere...  
May your soul rest in peace, Alviss Kong ...
 


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